Hi all.
I will help clear this up for you.
1. LXterminal comes with LXDE as part of the desktop environment so its included in the install and its a servicable terminal and functions well within LXDE. (and has been included for years)
2. xterm is required as the installer uses it and its coded to do as such. (and I have not changed that code) I considered removing and changing the code before releasing R8, but it was left as is as it added negligible space and overhead and the effort and time made it an easy decision.
3. uxterm is not a separate package (even though it has its own binay). Its a wrapper around xterm to provide locale and UTF-8. If you go look at the package in synaptic (xterm) you will see it says as much in the description, and when xterm is installed, uxterm is as well.
The cleanup that probably would be easiest is to simply remove the menu entries for both xterm and uxterm and remove said confusion. I will look into that for R9 and I am not sure about changing the code specific to the terminal as its a utility.
As far as what terminal works best for your environment? Thats a debate that could go on forever. The average desktop user does not do much in the terminal except use it when a GUI does not meet their needs for what they are trying to accomplish. (So this is not a debate place for terminals - roxterm,xterm,uxterm,urxvt,terminator,tilda, etc) You are using the bash shell regardless of terminal choice - So unless you are programming or have other specific needs the average user uses whats included as the default. (lxterminal, gnome, etc).
So unless you have a specific application or question regarding terminal performance I suggest removing xterm from synaptic or removing the menu entries if they are causing confusion and just use lxterminal for LXDE. If you are interested in a more feature rich terminal that does things like split windows, etc. take a look at terminator.
Couple other quick notes. Please specify 32 or 64bit in your questions, and please remove the URL from your signature block as its not linux related, does not appear to be a personal web site but business related (maybe your business?), and not related to technology. So we generally ask people to not put URL's in their signatures that are not personal, or related to technology/linux in some way as it could be misinterpreted as spam, and people have been blocked for that.
If you want to send me a direct message with a explanation, I will be happy to discuss further the URL and web site.
Regards,
biff