thanks again bilwho
i had just found the dbus-launch trick on the manjaro forum after you pointed me in the right direction
although it took you a lot less time
for me both calls work - no error messages
Different distros deal with this differently...
definately
MX-15 is debian stable xfce
linuxbbq is debian sid openbox
and they both work straight up
which leads to this
Why do you need sudo with lxappearance?
I see no difference than using:
Menu > Preferences > Customize Look and Feel
i make my root adie different so i know thats where i am
and even though it tells me right there, root@ i still make roxterm different
just in case
in root spacefm there´s an ugly red you cant see through
so i change it...
except that now i can get there
1 root lxappearance is not changing the root spacefm looks
2 root lxappearance is changing my user spacefm looks
this ones solved
off i go down the hole
cheers